Fantasizing has such a bad stigma around it. Because people who don’t understand it thinks we just want to run away from problems. No, fantasizing is a coping mechanism or an escape to some. People who do this don’t always have a good reality so they picture something they want so they can lift their mood ( because they might not be happy) and they don’t want to surround themselves with negativity.
Why do you think people who read fiction books read them. Because they have some personal problems, like in books the nerd aka the person who likes to read, usually has a bad home life, is bullied a lot, etc. They know what reality is in fact they live a harsh one and it’s negative so they read about other peoples’ lives to get away from all the negativity surrounding their own lives.
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