Ciaooooo BESTIES. Welcome to another look into my thoughts. We’re talking about SLUT SHAMING today and there is much to be said. Let me know your perspective and thoughts on this topic, especially if you have been slut shamed.
What is Slut Shaming? According to Google < Oxford Languages > Slut shaming is the action or fact of Stigmatizing a woman for engaging in behaviour judged to be promiscuous or sexually provocative. You know what I hate especially? I hate when women slut shame other women. < Men’s thoughts towards women are generally irrelevant in my opinion > Sex is a normal thing that everyone eventually does but it has such a bad stigma around it. People don’t even care if you’ve never had sex before, you could dress less than modesly and you could be called a slut. You could also dress in something modesly but because you might have over average breast and butt in other terms a better body than some, you could still be slut shamed < or called names like attention seeking whore>. and a person who some would call ” flat” is demmed as okay.
When men have a lot of sex with different women, he is seemed as a player and get’s approval from the male population < some not all > but when the genders are reversed the woman is called all kinds of names and is sometimes treated badly. < a word that they might call you is CHEAP and I don’t like it > Men think that they own and you and they can do whatever they like so they do things like rape or sexual harassment. And when they do they poorly try to justify it with this phrase “YoU wErE aSKiNg FoR iT” Which is disgusting because there was no consent.
Women who do sex work, like prostitution, stripping, e.t.c arelook down on in society but these women do these things because A. They like it { they feel sexy and empowered and it makes them a shit ton of money } or B. They need the money { becuse they might come from a poor background and do not have an education or they need the money to get an educational background} when they need money men like to take advantage of this and they treat them like trash or how ever they want because they know that they don’t have the resources to fight back or they wont because they need the money.
Another problem I have is why do women have to cover up themselves from men? Like in schools the girls aren’t allowed to show they’re shoulders because it’s distracting to the boys. Like The problem is not women but the men because they can’t fucking learn to control themselves and take no for an answer. And eventhough the men is the problem they make women take the punishment and it is absolutely ridiculous.
Back like in the BC era or old times < idk >, women didn’t have clothes, they would use what they had around them and only someparts were covered but because of men and they’re need to sexualize a lot of things women had to start wearing more clothes to cover up themselves.
I have a different perspective to the whole stripper sex work situation now. Why aren’t the men that indulge in and pay for sex work not criticized for partaking in it? These men are looking at all the different women that are dressed in clothes that are deemed inappropriate to Society < lingerie { which is deemed appropriate to only wear in your home } > and are paying for these women to pleasure them and sometimes thay go over board and make the woman uncomfortable. So why don’t people look at them side ways? Why aren’t they judged and if they are why aren’t they judged as much as the women? < sometimes the ment aht are there are married or in a relationship – CHEATING IS BAD – look at the people that goes to the women that do sex work >
Men go in public shirtless all the time so why is it a problem when women show a little skin? A common question men ask is why can we see women when they are in a Bikini or bathing suit but can’t see them when they are in undergarments. My answer to this is, with a Bikini or bathing suit it is made for going to the beach or pool which is public so they can choose to allow people to see them in the bathing suit or not but undergarments are more of a private and intimate thing, it wasn’t made for them to wear in public and it is for they eyes of themselves or who they want to see, so if they don’t want people seeing them in it, it is private. The concept is all about being able to choose and not to be forced.
This is it for today. Watch the videos, < If you want that is >. I want to know what you thought about this and tell me slut shaming stories. Byeeeeeee my lovlies.
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