Hello little badasses in the making. Today we’re talking about not giving a fuck because caring is too stressing and irrelevant. So I have made a YouTube video which is the YouTube video above and you can watch it to get a general idea of what we’re talking about which is not giving a f*** because you should.
I have developed the mind set of just not caring about what others think about me. I think that you should prepare yourself for disappointment and not get your hopes up that way if things ended up not going your way you’re not surprised and then you don’t end up hurt.
people’s opinions and thoughts and ideas of you contribute nothing to your life or take nothing from your life therefore what they think of you is irrelevant and and therefore what they think of you is irrelevant and unimportant. when you stop caring you find out that you worry about things less there for stressing you less. remember that you can’t please everybody and not everybody cares about you or what you think.
Above is my Spotify playlist that will make you fell like a BAD BITCH or PSYCHOPATH.
If a person makes it their life mission to talk bad about you and spread rumors and lies about you it’s called FAN BEHAVIOUR and you should probably feel bad for THEM instead of YOURSELF, they are jealous and envious of you < also if they start acting differently towards you like being nice, they want you to trust them so they can backstab you, trust no one, I repeat TRUST BLOODY NO ONE. Even the people closest to you can can hurt you or maybe they probably have it out for you already.>
Just do what you BLOODY want, stop letting people restrict your abilities, you could be doing so much if you didn’t let people walk over you and control you. They probably know the potential you have and they’re scared of it, the people who you think have your best interest at heart may NOT.
Stop being vulnerable. What i mean by this is don’t be an easy target, stop wearing your heart on your shirt sleeves for the whole world to see. People pick on people who look vulnerable or easy to manipulate.
Have confidence and then if you don’t have confidence then pretend you do because they say FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT. Also stop being so available for people because there aren’t available for you and they don’t care for you so STOP.
You should can act civil and calm, but if a BITCH try you then don’t be shy to knock their teeth out, if you’re going to act tough make sure you can BLOODY FIGHT, because people will feel threatened by you and they will always try to try some shit with you so make sure you can defend yourself.
Be true to yourself, don’t pretend to be anyone you’re not. The best you can do for your mental health is to be Unbothered. Make sure you are at peace with yourself, letting go of the past starts with giving yourself a break and making sure you forgive yourself before you forgive anybody else. Never be a coward it’s not a good look.
DON’T give into peer pressure. people who constantly insist and pressure you to do things you don’t want to do are not good for you and do not have your best interests at heart. believe your instincts if you feel something isn’t right then it isn’t and don’t do it.
Everyone has a breaking point it’s okay to not be okay, just focus on yourself and what’s best for you. Find something that makes you feel happy, content and peaceful, something that will help you keep your Shit together and stop Anger from taking over. For example, music, art, writing, going to the beach or swimming, exercising, walking, kick boxing, shopping, hanging out with people you like and that makes you feel safe, sleeping, singing, reading, yoga. Sometimes it’s go to channel your energy into something else.
Thanks for reading, share your thoughts in the comments, BYEEEE unbothered Souls.
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